Negativity: a serious cause

Hey guys, how’re you all? I hope you all are doing well. So lets come to our today’s topic which we are facing nowadays “negativity”. Today I’ll help you to face it, and how you can deal with it. Let’s start.

1. What is negativity?

    So basically, negative thoughts coming in our mind all day. Obviously we all had or having negativity and its ok if it is for a while. But having negativity so long is not good for our mental and physical health.

2. How negativity comes in our mind?

    Negativity is something that doesn’t come in a moment it comes gradually. Having negative environment around us, having toxic partner, having toxic family results into negative thought which turns into negativity. So to overcome this, we should stay away from these. If it is not possible to stay away at least think positive as much as you can.

3. How to overcome negativity?

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   We should stay away from toxic people toxic substances, do whatever you want, go where you want to, don’t be with the people who gives you negative vibes because it will drain your energy only and makes you feel pessimistic. Invest your time for good things only, be selfish for your goals, and don’t be emotional every time. People will come and go but the real will stay always so don’t care much about others feelings, do what makes you happy and be mature for your goals. Don’t ever think that you’re not enough.

4. My suggestions for you…….

 I would like to suggest you that don’t feel that you’re the only one who is facing this phase. Everyone goes through this. You have to come out of this. Make new friends; share your problems with your real friends and with your close ones. Choose what is right or what is wrong for you. Be you because you’re unique. Always remember you’re worthy.

And pardon me I could not upload any blogs because of some personal reason. So, that’s it guys, I hope you like this blog. Feel free to share your views in comment section. You can read my previous blogs by scrolling down this page. Keep sharing.

YOUR ENEMY...

                          Your enemy…..

Hey guys, how are you all? I hope you all are fine. Today I will cover the most important topic. So let’s start.

Your biggest enemies are:-

1.      Your laziness.

·         How it could be your enemy?

·         Your laziness could be your biggest enemy because sometimes laziness is the only thing that is stopping you for going ahead. So, if you want to know how you can overcome it then stay tuned.

·         How it is been developing in your life?

·         It is been developing in you because of procrastinating behaviour, toxic people, distractions like games, Youtube scrolling, reading memes, etc.  

·         How you can avoid/ overcome it?

·         You can avoid it by doing exercise, removing toxic friends because your friends could be the reason behind your laziness, stay focused, don’t divert your attention on somewhere except your goals. These are the certain ways by which you can avoid your laziness.

2.      Your daily activity.

Your daily activities can be your biggest enemies if you are wasting your day by being lazy, doing nothing creative, not doing anything for getting your goals, etc.

·         How you are wasting your time daily?

·         You are wasting your time by doing activities like living with toxic people, overthinking, thinking about past incidents, wasting time on phones, laptops, etc.

·         How you can make your day productive?

·         You should work with consistency if you want to achieve anything that’s why you should work daily for your goals. You can also do exercise if you want to remove laziness, which is the most observed obstacle for your goal.

3.      Your friends.

·         How our friends can be the worst enemy?

·         Our friends could be our biggest enemy, because of their bad intentions, friends having no goals is the worst enemy because they won’t go to achieve anything as well as they will stop you.

·         How your friends should be?

·         I am not judging anyone but your friends should be your biggest support, motivator, the ones who can heal your wounds, who can stand with you in your hard times, push you towards your goals. And if you are having toxic friends then remove them no matter how much they love you or you love them because they will not be going to support you in fact they will stop you and also acts as an obstacle for your future goals. So, stay away from toxicity. Make your friends wisely.

4.      Your addictions.

·         How your addiction is ruining your life?

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·         Your addictions are the worst enemy for you. It will stop you. You have to overcome your addictions if you want to be successful. Using a phone all day, smoking, drinking, living with a toxic partner, friends and not leaving them because we love them, is the most common addiction we all have once in a lifetime. But few of us only can overcome them.

·         Which type of addictions you should have?

·         You should have addiction like doing consist work for your goals, reading, giving time to explore yourself, spending time for your hobby, doing creativity, etc.

These are the few addictions that you should overcome. If you want the second part of this blog then comment down below. Stay tuned to my website, don’t forget to press follow button if you want to stay connected to me. Thank you so much guys, for reading till this.

 

 

 

LIFE || HOW TO LIVE LIFE|| DEFINITION OF LIFE||

 

                                                                Life

Hey guys, how are you all? I hope you all are fine. First of all, I’m sorry that I couldn’t upload any blog since many days. So after so much break, today I will share some interesting stuffs related to life. So let’s start.

1.  WHAT IS LIFE?

Ø  Life is such a wonderful journey that you can’t even imagine how beautiful it is! But yeah, it contains many ups and down but the most vital thing is how we are making it.

Ø  Like many people stay positive and achieve their goals on the other side there are also such people who are full of negativity and spreading it and they are the people who can’t achieve anything and stop everyone for achieving their goals also.

Ø  As my suggestion, we should be grateful if we fail in anything because it gives us a lesson that success cannot. So if we fail it will make us stronger or it will give us more strength. But if don’t take it in a positive way it can also gives us negative impact. So now are you all thinking that how you can make your life more interesting? How can you handle your failure? Why should you live happy/positive every time? If you all are thinking about this then you should read my remaining blog.

2.HOW YOU CAN MAKE YOUR LIFE MORE INTERESTING THAN AN ORDINARY LIFE?

Ø  You can make life more interesting than an ordinary/average one by doing the things that you wanted. Don’t follow a certain rules or don’t make boundaries or whatever it is. Because after all it is your life you can do whatever you want with it.

Ø  Also, don’t stay at one point in your life I mean you should try new things that is out of your comfort zone. Live your life to the fullest.

3.HOW CAN YOU HANDLE YOUR FAILURE?

Ø  You should handle your failure by taking your breakdown as a lesson. if you also take example of any of your role model like APJ ABDUL KALAM, STEVE JOBS, EDISON, etc. you know what’s common in all these people is they also even failed while making such great work that we Still remember.

Ø  Even failure is important like if you didn’t experience any failure in your life then you also don’t know the taste of success.

Ø  So we if you’re facing any obstacle then be grateful because that obstacle is a sign of your coming successful path.

  4.WHY YOU SHOULD BE POSITIVE IN EVERY SITUATION?

Ø  You must be positive every time because the positivist people know how to handle any negative-ness and how to go ahead in life.

Ø  Also, you don’t even know when your end will come. So, be happy in every situation.

So guys, that’s all for today. Hope you will like this post. And if you have any suggestion then please let me know via comment section. We will meet in next blog till then subscribe my blog channel. You can subscribe me by clicking the subscribe button that will find below my profile photo on this page. Also share my blog. Thank you..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

SELF LOVE|| LOVE YOURSELF||

 

                                                                                                                  

LOVE YOURSELF || SELF LOVE ||

Hey guys, how are you all?? I hope you all are fine. Today’s topic is very interesting. I’m going to enlighten the importance of self-love. There is a book of APJ ABDUL KALAM that “you’re unique”. In that book, he also explained self-love is the most important thing and you’re unique from others. Because there is nothing more important thing than giving time to yourself.  I will solve all your queries regarding self-love in this post. In this blog, I will enlighten the importance of self-love, why you should think about you.  Not taking your more time let’s start.

1.   What is self-love??

·       Self-love, which is very crucial for living a good life

·       Loving yourself in any condition, at any circumstances is simply means self-love. So, now you all are thinking about why we should love our self?? Then the next segment is for you guys.

2.   Why we should do self-love??

·       You can take example of world-famous actor MORGAN FREEMAN, billionaire BOB JOHNSON, world richest women OPRAH WINFREY, they all have black skin but they made great history because they didn’t worry about their colour, in fact, they love themselves as they are. So you should also accept how you are.

·       To build good level of confidence, the first thing that is most important is self-love or loving yourself.

·        If you are fat, thin, tall, small, brown, white then you always concernS about your look. But if you are in love with your body, mind, appearance, attire than no one can beat you and give you negative thought regarding your looks. So, are you thinking about how you can be confident about yourself or how you can do self-love then you should read my remaining blog?

3.   How you can do this??

·        Always keep in mind there is no one who is exactly as you are. You should feel confident about yourself.

·       The thing that you should always remember people will never support you for doing this. They will only become an obstacle like they will say you’re fat you should wear loose clothes, or like you’re brown you shouldn’t wear yellow it only suits on white skin. In these conditions, you should ignore them because they are dumb; they don’t know how beautiful you are.

·       You should also avoid people who always dominants you by making fun of your look. The reason behind avoiding this is, the real or true people never make fun of other’s look, on the contrary side, the fake or jealous people do this kind of kinds of stuff.

·       To summarize this section, I would like to say “Your beauty can’t define by your colour, size, and height”.

4.   How you are avoiding loving yourself??

·       You’re avoiding loving yourself because of some silly people. Like many people does comment on you and are taking it in a serious manner then you will be concerned about you but if are in love with yourself, then you’ll never consider their nonsense comments.

·       To summarize this section, I would like to say “Your beauty can’t define by your colour, size, and height”.

So that’s it for today guys, I hope you all will like this post. Share this with your friends. Comment down about views about self-love. If you have any topic suggestion then let me know via comments. Till my next blog stay tuned.

CONFIDENCE

 

                                                                                                                                                                 Confidence

Hey guys, how are you all?? I hope you all are fine. So, I don’t have to mention my topic now because you all got my topic through heading. So let’s start Confidence, it is a feeling that everyone should have. To make a good career, to speak in front of the crowd, or to when we are exploring new things confident is the only thing we must have. Many people fail while achieving something they have lack of confidence for their instinct or you can say they haven’t any confidence about themselves. So in this blog, I’m going to explain some important points which are related to confidence. Stay tuned till the last section of this blog.

1) Why being confidence is so important??

a) To be honest, confidence can never build in one day it will take your time. But it wills definitely going to be an important key in your success. And after reading this blog you will be confident about your career, passion, and goal.

b)Confidence is the main key which cans leads you towards your desiring goals.

c)  It is important because confident peoples have more chances to have a successful life. Like, take the example of any successful person. The most common in all that you will find in their successive story is they had/has confidence that they will be triumph in their journey.

d) Because of that positive mindset they got their achievement and the rest is history. Now, if you are thinking about how you also can be so confident?? Then next segment is for you guys.

2)  How to build confidence??

a) The most important thing to build confidence is self-love.

b)Surrounded by positively or with a positive mindset.

c)  You can build confidence by growing you. Also, you can build confidence by removing self-doubt, by being positive about the ongoing situation, by practice. Like if you’re a public speaker then you should practice more and more, if you’re a student then do study hard, if you’re a dancer then give all your time to dance, in his way if you practice hard and can build it.

d)Then you will be confident in your future. Because you were already ready for forthcoming state of affairs.

3) How you are losing it??

a) You are losing your confidence because you are bounded with negativity or with the people who don’t want you to go ahead in your life. As a result, you are having negative thoughts this is the main cause of lacking confidence. Doing the kinds of stuff that your heart doesn't want will always going to down your confidence.

4). What is benefits of having confidence??

·      There are many benefits to having it. The main benefit is you will never feel afraid of taking new steps for you. And if you’re confident about your steps then you will get success in life nobody can stop you in this.

So that’s it for today guys I hope you like this blog. Comment down your views regarding this topic. Also, give me some suggestion if you have regarding blog’s topic. I will meet you soon in my next blog. Till that stay tuned, share my blog.

 

SELF DOUBT

 

                                                       Self Doubt

So guys, how are you all?? I hope you all are fine. Today my topic is well known to everyone, which is self-doubt. Many people having self-doubt during some phase, or during the successive phase. Thus, by this blog, I want to clear some doubt about it. So read it till the comment section. Let’s start then,

1.  Unfortunately but how self-doubt began to occupy its space in us??

·       Somehow we, start to have a doubt like I can’t do this or that. Sometimes we even hesitated to take a step towards something new.

·        This happens with everyone but some people can overcome this, the reason behind self-doubt is having a negative circle like if we have friends who don’t want to have a good and successive life then they will also stop you to try something new by fulfilling you by negative thought. Or even sometimes your partner also stops you for doing somewhat best for you. So, now the question is how we can remove/avoid this?? To answer this, I made the next segment

2. How we can remove this??

·       We can remove pessimism by avoiding people who don’t want you to go ahead in life. It can be your partner, relatives, or it can be your close friends. I know it is difficult to avoid them but if you will get success in your life then I can say they will definitely come to you. The people who meant for you will definitely give you positive thoughts. In contrast, the people who hate you will always fulfil you with negativity. And also a thing that I wanted to say is losing people who are an obstacle in your path is not a great loss. The loss is losing your goal by spending your precious time with those people who don’t want you to go ahead in life.

3. How you can be positive??

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    You can be a positive thinker by reading some inspirational books, spending time with yourself, finding your passion, working for your best version. By doing all these not only you can achieve your dreaming goal but also you can be a positive thinker. In addition, there are a lot of benefits of having a positive mindset.

·       4. What you should do when you feel low or having doubt of yourself/ having negative thoughts??

·      You should take a deep breath and say ‘this will pass soon’ in this condition. Because life is a swing, like sometime it will make you happy or some time it will make you do disbelief in you. In every phase it is must to have patience:  have the patience to deal with negative thought.

So, guys, that’s it I hope you all will like this post, so share my post, comment down your views regarding self-doubt and let me know about the topic on which you want next blog.

WHAT YOU SHOULD DO

 

                          WHAT YOU SHOULD DO??

 We often heard from our friends that they feel useless after some of their fellows left them. So my topic is how you can permit them to do so?? So in this blog, I’m going to say what you should you before you let someone be in you

Value yourself                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          

I just wanted to say that value yourself first before you are in anyone and also there is a limit of valuing someone more than yourself in any relationship don’t go beyond that limit. Don’t value someone like they are more special than you. And always remember as APJ ABDUL KALAM said that you are unique.

Love yourself

      The second thing that I wanted to say that love yourself first before you start loving anyone. Don’t let your flaws to be an obstacle in it. If you’re not the one who loves you the most then you’re just wasting your time by impressing or loving somebody else. Always remember there is nobody who is just like you. You are special even though if people don’t value you, don’t love you then it's ok because not everyone’s choice is good.

Don’t chase anyone

   To cover this topic I wanted to say don’t chase anyone for love, respect, money, etc. and don’t go for the people just because you love them because you also have some self-esteem. Nowadays many people around us chase good looking people for friends from their point of view, a good look is everything even though if they don’t give a damn. Appearance is just a thing. Among all this, I just want to say that a good heart is more important than good looks. Outer beauty wills definitely going to change one day with old age but the thing that remains constant is a good heart.

Accept rejections

     If someone rejects you by your body, weight, height, colour, status, etc then it’s absolutely ok because it is not the end of your life in fact rejections from someone helps you to be a better version of yourself. Focus on yourself the one who loves you will never judge you by your look, status. Love yourself, focus on yourself only. Don’t beg someone for their presence.

Be passionate

    At last, I just wanted to express this point that is to be passionate about your goals. People will come and go but true ones will always stay with you no matter whats your situation is.

Bye guys, I will meet you all in the next blog till that always remember my blog’s point.